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Another day another dollar! I would like to touch on parenthood, how many parents are feeling stressed out about being a parent? I mean there is no handbook on parenting and let's face it with kids you have drama. I myself a mother of 4, I sometime feel like I'm about to loose my mind up in here. Has anyone been having a hard time? Let's chat!
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Dear Raecass, Sometimes I am just so lonely!! Vday is coming up and I have the Blues!
ReplyDeleteHello Monica! Thanks for joining! Why do you have the blues??
DeleteI am all alone! My Husband Left me January 17 of this year.. I lay in bed at night and cry my self to sleep, I know he is with that other bitch! He left me for someone younger...
ReplyDeleteHow long have you been married.. So Sorry You are Divorced!
DeleteI was married to this man for 19 years! He was sweet and kind, he loved me deep and passionately, I took care of the house and took care of him! He went to medical school, and became a doctor.
DeleteI understand the sleepless nights. I cried for 6 wks off and on, when the man I was with made 4 kids with no only cheated but made a baby with her. It took time for that sort of despair to heal. Rae
DeleteI had to create a plan of healing. I gave myself permission to hurt, disappointed and just done. I almost felt as if I could not go on. It was like a piece of me was gone and I couldn't understand why? Realize your worth and build on that.
DeleteHow do I Live? From today How do I go on, I haven't left the bed, I haven't showered.
ReplyDeleteLet's get you out of the bed, Go take a nice long bath, relax, take time to clear your mind. You need some support right now, Do you have any girlfriends that you can hangout with? Maybe you need have a girls night out?
ReplyDeletewell what I did when I hadn't showered for days, I accepted that I wasn't going to shower that I wasn't going to get over it right away, that this pain was real and I wanted to deal with it I asked God to allow me to remember this pain so that I would never allow it to happen again I also asked God to never allow anyone to put a veil over my eyes. I
ReplyDeleteI prayed, i cried and cried some more. I also reached out to friends and eventually I got up and took a shower.
DeleteRemember, being hurt isn't a form of weakness it's a gift to teach you what works for you and what type of love you need. May I ask did you know he was cheating? Rae
DeleteYes, I knew he was cheating on me. For the last 10 years. It made him happy, Our relationship was better for it. He was a new man. He catered to me like no other.. My weekend nights was lonely..... He often came home...smelling like her.. How could I be so stupid...
DeleteI often dreamed of the day he....He would come home, To OUR home.. Do you know he had the nerve to tell me......He ...He is having a child with this women, and they will be needing a Nanny... ME !!! where is the love..... I'm suppose to be his wife... where did I mess up?
DeleteYou went wrong when you forgot to love yourself. All I read is about his happiness. What do you want? What things make you happy? Did him having this other women make you happy? remember this page's creed is: "If you are doing to tell it keep it 100" this is all coming from a place of love - Cass
Deletemy mistake " If you are going to tell it keep it 100"
DeleteHe asked YOU to be his Nanny?? This is outrageous! How did that make you feel, cause I can barely catch my breathe I am so angry. and it's not even my situation. - Cass
DeleteWhat DO I WANT?! I want a man who will be satisfied with me. I want to feel needed and want like every women wants. Him having that other women , Made me sick to my stomach! But I could judge him...I almost felt sorry for fucking is Father! but I am glad I did it! and I'll fuck his brother to if he wasn't a fag! He thinks he is going to do me like this treat ME like trash... I am his WIFE and he will see that shortly.....
DeleteI feel, disrespected ... He asked me to be the NANNY of his WHORE'S baby!!!
DeleteThe problem is he wants me to have children! I want children, but he walked into this marriage, knowing I couldn't have kids.... I am worthless. What kind of women am I.. I feel so powerless.
ReplyDeleteDarling, YOU aren't worthless! Monica YOU are a STRONG women, who is going thru a tough time. There are plenty of women in the world who are unable to have children. But, there are other options! You have to accept the things that you can't change.- Cass
ReplyDeletewell dayum!!!!!! shiid you sound like you on the way to making him pay!!!! I mean, I get it, vengeance is yours thus sayeth Monica!!!! you done slept with his father and you said you would have slept with his brother if he wasn't a homosexual. Grrl, you on a war path. did it make you feel better? Rae
ReplyDeleteI heard about your site. I wanted to discuss HIV awareness.. I'm 37 yrs old with 3 children I received HIV from my long time boyfriend. I'm devastated! I always thought if it( meaning HIV) ever happened to me. I thought I'd kill a muthafucker. HOWEVER, to state facts, I stayed with him 5 yrs after finding out I had HIV. WHAT WAS I GOING TO DO !!!!!!my heart was broken .
ReplyDeleteI thought I had been giving a death sentence. I asked God why me??? why did this happened to me. I'm was good mom, I didn't sleep around and I never used drugs. I guess when you love someone more than you love yourself .THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS! I'VE BEEN HIV POSTIVE FOR 11 YRS. HIV knocked on my door and I opened it with a warm pussy and a broken heart. I trusted him with all of me and he abused my love. I loved him more then understanding. wow, understanding.. could you imagine loving someone more then understanding? I reached to his family and they blamed me, I guess, I should have been more careful then to trust him, who is him? him is a son, father, grandson and the devil walking in milky black skin with the smell of sweet and sensual musk. I should have known. I really can say God gave me signs, the night we were about to make love I asked- he yelled of course....smh why would I do a thing like that to you? I knew deep down inside but I was afraid to confront it.
what will say is this.. I had a scare with HIV and I can tell you I was afraid. I know all about trusting someone with your entire self. smh. shit is hard when you love someone. how are you now 11 yrs later? rae
ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous, Thank you for sharing your story here with us today. I admire your courage. Plenty of others can read your story and grow not only strength from it, but knowledge. - Cass
ReplyDeleteI applaud you for speaking out on this very important subject... we all need to wrap it up.
ReplyDeleteI'm living with it and dealing with it and it's hard some days, I feel sick and some days I feel 100% but never got over his betrayal. Rae are you protecting yourself?
ReplyDeleteyes, I had a recent scare doing a crazy shit with a man barely knew... after that we never dealt with each other. I guess I had a 1 night stand for the 1st time in my life but it wasn't willingly. I'm negative. the scare was enough.. I haven't has sex since...Rae
ReplyDeleteGood for you ! be smart about who you ley inside of you.
ReplyDeleteHello... listen love is blind, only when we are fed up do the blinders come off. Tell your story at a support group if you haven't already.... your not stupid he is. How does one put a death sentence on the mother of his children. You are handling life well I hope for 11yrs. You are stronger than you might be giving yourself credit for. Tell your story and talk abt preventative measures to women of all ages.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Sheila, it takes a strong woman to be given his best shot and you still up here talking about and keep it 100%. Rae
ReplyDeleteLadies! I took sometime to think, I took a drive around the block, and ended up at that WHORES house.. I couldn't bare to look at that house... I sat in front of their house and emailed the pictures I took of me and his father, I promised his father I would never want to ruin this family. OUR family. But, the gloves are off. I emailed the pictures to his mother, and that FAG! If my ship is sinking so is theirs! Trevor's not so Perfect anymore is he.....
ReplyDeleteVengeance is mine so sayth MONICA! I am speechless. We was worried when you disappeared. You sound like a women on a mission. What is your mission Monica??? - Cass
ReplyDeleteMy Mission, Is to cause the same hurt and pain I felt. He took everything from me, my self respect, my dignity, my self worth, he beaten me down so bad mentally, I.. I lost myself, all I cared about is how to please him.. Then You asked me What do I want... I want him to pay, I want him to cry, I want him to hurt deep to the soul , and just when he thinks he can't sink any lower... I'll be there to push him down...
DeleteDamn.. Monica. I didn't mean for you to go and do that. But I can't say I blame you, I just hope you can lay in the bed you made. -Cass
Deletegrrrrrl, you done gave ya self a death sentence.... this nigga gonna kill yo ass.
ReplyDeleteMonica,Monica,Monica... this is like some Tyler Perry movie....dayum... you are pissed and twisted.. I love it! I mean if he thinks he deserves all he wants. you have something for him.Rae
ReplyDeleteI respect what you did to the mother. she needed to know what her husbands capable of doing. the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. fuck em all. T
ReplyDeleteHis mother had the nerve to tell me to take the divorce like a lady. I wonder how she feeling now? My phone won't stop ringing.. I am running my bath water, I am free. I will take that bath now, I laid my cards on the table. I won't be the only one crying tonight.
DeleteThe mom probably knew about her trifling ass son anyway.
ReplyDeleteshe should take it like a lady.lol... I'm not saying it's right but girl you done got even. lol....you should answer and say take it like a lady! T
ReplyDeleteDamn, Monica! I agree with Anonymous! She knew about that other women! Did she know he asked you to be the NANNY of his child? I agree with Rae this is all the way crazy.. Monica please tell me you pulling our leg. - Cass
ReplyDeleteHis mother suggested that I become the nanny...
DeleteMonica, what's your next move? you sound wounded at 1st but you seem to have remedied your problem. Rae
ReplyDeletehow long were you having this affair with his father? just curious?
ReplyDeletethe affair.. Never ended! I first slept with his father on our Honeymoon.. Trevor was paged to the hospital. As I sat there alone..... ALONE. He told his father that I didn't sound to well on the phone and to come check on me... and THAT he did! He check on me in the bathroom, In the living room, all over the honeymoon suite. I bet he wish we didn't stay somewhere local.. If he only....Did what I asked. I wanted to go to Hawaii, But no.. What about his job.. What about me!
DeleteMonica, I'm shocked you even care that much about your husband considering you slept with your husband's father on your honeymoon. Rae
ReplyDeleteIt may seem that way.. But I was so hurt by then.. I don't know what I was doing, I was so depressed, and attention starved...Now I am wondering... when he got paged maybe he wasn't even at the hospital.. He was probably with her... Rae You don't understand.
ReplyDeleteNot to be nosey.. I herd all bout this page! and.. I just want to kno wha did da mutha say????? Cuz,..... Damn tho.. On ya honeymoon ma? smh
ReplyDeleteI am with you! What did the mother say!!!! MONICA You walked into our lives and threw us thru a world wind !!!!! what did the mother say!!! - the thirst is real - Cass
DeleteIt's a lot of drama and hurt going on at every angle. All I can say is I'm a firm believer in what goes around comes around. Idk where the hell this story book is coming from fact or fiction. .. idk if monica's husband cheated 1st or if she defiled their bed on the honeymoon nite with her in law. It almost sounds like your husband knew abt you and your father in law. Thats why he hit you with some shit like be the nanny. Bc to say that he can't stand you. I wouldn't be shocked if your mother in law knew all of it too. And in reality the jokes on you. If your feeling any type of hurt that called karma MONICA and it came right around and bit you in your ASS. rightfully so. Hope you get your life together bc they will still be a family with or with out the antics of a teenage act. Your ex and his new woman and child. Oh yea pssst if you didn't get that feeling your mother n law knows what your father in law is up to...your not the only woman he is smashing. You need to grieve as long as you need and get over it. Bc at the end of the day you are still on your own. Get a grip, get a life, and move on.
ReplyDeleteanonymous. this ain't nosey.. this is an open forum. ask anything you like> Rae
ReplyDeleteI do see shade coming from Sheila Bond! Rae
ReplyDeleteyour ass is nasty, MONICA you said you were hurt because he moved on and divorced your ass? well, it sounds like you guys weren't meant to be in the 1st place... you cheated on him with his father? what type of fuckery is that? your a misery woman with a lot of issues and if you think it began with your husband leaving you than your wrong. you probably never had a father's love therefore you don't understand the bond between the 2 get your life you ratchet ass woman. kyio
ReplyDeleteLol. Yes you see shade sista. I don't understand how someone can feel some type of way when the trifling move was made on the honeymoon. Either this chick is twisted and playing the victim or this is bullshit... if this is bullshit monica you need to not waste our time... sit your ass at your laptop and start writing the juicy novels we find ourselves reading. Bc with your imagination you should be making bank.
ReplyDeleteI think Monica is nut.. plan !! kyio
DeleteTHE SHADE OF IT ALL!!! RAE
ReplyDeleteWhen are you going to make a book?! can I get free copy! IJS - Cass
DeleteSo, Monica find a manager.
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ReplyDeleteOkay, I don't appreciate being judged by any of you! Sheila You don't know me at all. I could Buy and sell 1000 bitches like you! Kyio GET YA LIFE
ReplyDeleteMy shade sense are tingling!! HONEY!! Shit just got REAL!! HELLO!!! YASSSSSS! -Cass
ReplyDeleteya ass put your life on here and now you're mad because we spoke our minds bye bitch!!! kyio
ReplyDeleteMonica, Cass and I won't judge you at all.. we welcome your story and we appreciate your comments. Rae
ReplyDeleteI want you to know I've done some shady shit out of pain. You sound hurt and very confused on how to deal with these strong emotions. Rae
ReplyDeleteEveryone is welcomed here in the House of RaeCass! We appreciate all fans anonymous or not!
ReplyDeleteMonica you put your shit out there. You couldnt buy or sell me if you tried. What you need to do is buy yourself a life and stop fucking your EX husbands daddy. What you need to do is SELL this bullshit to someone else. If you don't wanna hear what people have to say disappear off the site. Or like your mother in law said take your shit like a woman. Okay nanny. Just know your still by yourself. Enjoy yourself in bed by yourself. Sociopath! !!
ReplyDeleteHey guys i have A problem with my husband right now and really tossed me out my house and it cold and he just spit on me from the window should I call the cops
ReplyDeleteHello Anonymous!! Can you start from the beginning... how did u end up outside your own house? -Cass
Deletewait a minute wait a minute... you outside on the blog?? shit is real. Rae
Deleteyes he cant put you out the house both of yall are married and live together. you have just as much right to be there as he do and cops will tell him that and he will have to let you come back in
DeleteHe threw me out cass and rae I won't have internet
DeletePhysically threw me out
Deletecan you call 911? why did he kick you out?
DeleteOkay, Anonymous! Call the cops! that's abuse! Call the cops and keep us posted! We feel for you! - Cass
Deleteok, Now shit just got real, we do not under any circumstances allow violence. don't return back into the house and find a safe place.Rae
Deletethese woman are a tragedy... Now you on a blog while you kicked out? kyio
DeleteHe gave me a 20 minute punishment I will go back in about 5
Deletehuh? punishment? ok... so tell us what happened? Rae
Deletewhy would you put up with that. it your house to/ you should be on the cops. you are not child. you are a grown ass woman and you should not let that man treat you like that.
DeleteDear Anonymous, What in the world is going on? What happened? What kind of punishment is this? - Cass
Deletemy thoughts are this, you need to get your life together, what type of relationship is this? I'm concerned bout your welfare. As Alexandria put it you deserve better. Rae
DeleteMy husband puts me on punishment just like my mom use to every single week just because they enjoyed it does thatremind anybody of some one hey know
DeleteAnonymous? Are you trying to throw shade.... Cause my shade sense is tingling.. If you going to tell it keep it 100
Deleteexactly , you crazy bitch.. you fuck your father's ex husband and you can buy and sell who a 1000 times... bye bitch.. Don't be mad because you can't handle the truth. kyio
ReplyDeleteUmmm honey... yes call the cops. If your name is on the deed to the house he can't kick u out. Or the lease. Second I would find somewhere to go for the night. And third you need to get off the blog and figure your next step.
ReplyDeleteI can't call the cops he is the cops! I mean at least I have a warm bed to sleep in a food on my table every night. I was homeless once upon a time.
DeleteSo you are putting up with the abuse, just to have a place to live? - Cass
DeleteHe beats me and throws me out at least once week . I'm use to it. Have you ever love some body si bad you can't sleep at night have you needed something so bad you can't break away.
ReplyDeleteSomebody is playing us... rae
DeleteBye anonymous!
DeleteDear Diary Anonymous,,, I never done something like this before.. I heard about this site via.... well I don't want to say.. But I have this problem...I think I am in love with someone.. But I don't know what to do... I never had these feelings for another women before..
ReplyDeleteWell, Welcome to the page Anonymous! If you don't mind me asking, who is this women? and does she show interest in you?- Cass
DeleteThis women, shes a co worker of mine... We gotten close after her Divorce... We hang out, we go out to lunch, I love spending time with her. I never been married, my last relationship was 10 years ago, I been dating on and off. She takes me out , and I never want it to end! well, Last night we gotten really drunk.... well she did.. and she kissed me... We kissed.. and it felt good.. too good, I fell victim to her pouty lips and wanting eyes. But was it the alcohol.. cause now she won't call I am nervous..
ReplyDeleteSounds like she is just as confused and new to this as well, give it sometime, maybe she is just as nervous.. Have you called her?- Cass
DeleteI called her, I texted her, What else can I do.. The moment we shared... It awoken something deep inside me.. I feel alive... I never felt so good.... Rae Cass Please tell me what to do.. I never even looked at a women twice before her!
DeleteAll you can do is give it time.. How long ago was her divorce? - Cass
DeleteAnonymous, i was in your same situation with woman before and she and I both were stepping in unfamiliar territory. It made afraid of myself and what might happened . Her and I reconnected and we had a reckless love affair that lasted on and off for about 3 yrs. So time will tell . Rae
DeleteHer divorce was about a year ago? I don't see what that has to do with anything.....
ReplyDeleteAnonymous keep calm,
ReplyDeleteYou guys shared something different and new and she's probably nervous. I mean you seem nervous, aren't you? Rae
I was nervous... But it was so full of raw passion.. Her lip stick is still on my neck..... and her perfume on my shirt....
DeleteGrrrl, you need to explore these feelings. Be free! Rae
DeleteIf not with her with someone else! Rae
ReplyDeleteshe called me.. we are meeting up tonight... @ 1130.. I'll come back on with some updates.. I am excited!
DeletePlease come back with an update! - Cass
DeleteThat's a booty call...lol....you go girl! Rae
ReplyDeleteWell RaeCass! The "booty call" was just that, she thought I was mad or something stupid, but we are officially dating!!! She is spending the night tonight ladies! I am happy! Thanks a bunch, I kissed a girl and loved it!
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